There are many ways to express love. When you start thinking about all the ways that you can express love the number becomes endless. There are many different ways ti express the feeling of love and different techniques exported from different countries.
There are many ways to express the emotion called love. Here are some of the ways to do it:
1.) Hold Hands
2.) Sit and Cuddle
3.) Kiss
4.) Sit and Talk
5.) Speak Kind words
6.) Buy a gift for no reason at all
7.) Sexual Intercourse (most everyone mistakes this as the main way to show someone you love them. But that shall be covered later on the difference.)
Society today is so hell bent on that sexual intercourse is love and that Sexual intercourse is the main thing in a relationship. But in retrospect they fail to realize that Love and a relationship does not revolve around sex. They fail to look back in the fourties and the fifties when married couples slept in two different beds and they never met in the middle unless it was only to make a child. Back then that was love. For a wife to be in a seperate bed than her husband was a norm and they lived day to day like that. And during that era of time when they said they wanted to be married they was stuck into it with no escape hardly. Women and Men in that day and age did not even think of sleeping with other men or women. The people of today fail to realize the advantage they have of being of this time being able to sleep with whom they want and to love who they want and be free enough to actually show the true meaning of love. Be it a heterosexual couple or a homosexual couple they are able to express true love but with this generation that I have seen. They use the word "Love" in vain, they throw it around like a useless word. I have seen women and men alike that choose to cheat on their spouse's but still go home and say the L word to their spouse's and fake like they mean it. I mean when I say I love You to my Husband I truely mean it cause I see myself with noone but him cause I truely love him. I have vowed myself and my love to my husband and he has done the same to me. We do not feel the urge or temption to be with other people. The young people of today use the word Love as if it is a joke. And coming from a 22 year old that is bad cause I am downgrading my own generation. But you want to know what I feel like that if you say the L word to someone that you should really mean it and not just use it to get into someone's pants like a lot of people do in the younger generation.
I am gay and I am open about it. I let it be very well known that I have a husband and that noone will ever come between us. And I feel that if you say you love someone then that is somewhat how you should feel towards that person that you tell you love. Not tell them you love them and then turn around and say well I dont love you. Cause if the person you say that to might truely love you to the point of killing someone for you...... That is totally going to destroy that person inside and totally eat at their heart to the point that it will ultimately end up with total devastation.
When you marry someone and you say that you will honor, cherish and love that person til death do you part I feel that you need to honor that vow to the fullest extent. I mean there are convience marriages and then there are forced or pre-arranged marriages them are understandable that the people in these marriage do not love each other or even know each other at times. That is totally understandable, but if you willingly walk into a marriage knowing what is going on then by means you keep to your responsibility. Not say something like you know I dont love you or have any physical attraction to you at all. I mean my goodness that is hurtful and dishonest to the person on the other end that probably loves you no matter what in life comes along and no matter what is going on in the present time or the near future they will love you no matter what. That is truely hurtful to them and it shows that the person that says I dont love you and I am not attracted to you, has no heart nor compassion of the sanctity of marriage or the feeling of Love. It is just beyond me how the people of this day and age can be so cruel and empty headed. Marriage is suppose to be a bond between two people that truely love each other til the day they die. Not for one to come later on and say I dont care that we are married I do not love you nor am I attracted to you. If that person fealt like that they should have said something earlier on instead of leading a person into a false hope and to have their heart cut to shreds like that.
But in conclusion I just have to say that love is a very strong emotion that gets throw around like a football and it shouldnt be but who can stop people from throwing it around?